Keeping up the record

Some of my dear readers may have read my posts about my wife’s pretty (if not, prettiest) friend whom always zaogeng (wardrobe malfunction) somehow whenever she comes to our house.

Last weekend, there was a gathering in my place. When I first saw her at the door, I reckon she’s going to zaogeng again today as she was clad in a very loose blouse, but didn’t expect the treat to come almost immediate though.

“Hi! Long time no see!”, she greeted me in her usual dainty voice. “Welcome welcome!” Then she proceed to bend forward to take off her shoes in front of me and man, that’s some nice cleavage! Black, 3/4cup bra. Her tits are at most B-cup but her complexion looked really smooth..

Surely she should be quite aware that it’s super easy to downblouse this way? She zaogeng so often that I can’t help wandering is she doing purposely to tempt the guys? Lol

In another instance, she repeated the same feat again on another of our male friend when she bent over in front of him to take something from her bag. I saw my male friend took a 2-3 sec view at her valley before tactically turned his head to look elsewhere. Too bad, I couldn’t make out much from the angle I was seated at. 😦

So looking forward to her next visit to my house!

All-women lifeguard tournament

More than 240 women lifeguards hit the sand at Sandy Hook on Wednesday to compete in the 33rd Annual All-Women Lifeguard Tournament

The competition, hosted by the National Park Service, is the largest in the nation devoted to women lifeguards.

The tournament is open to any women working as a lifeguard whether it is an oceanfront, river, lake, bay or pool.

Lifeguards from 21 beach patrols from from New Jersey, New York and other states competed in 10 events: surfboat challenge, distance run, ocean kayak challenge, run-swim-run, beach flags, iron woman, surf rescue, swim-run relay and run relay.

Not sure if it’s a good idea to wear a tube top. The drowning person could have easily yanked it off while struggling g in the water 😆

Qs from a female reader

Care to provide your views? 😊


I love your blog so much and have read almost all the posts. Being a female, I always wonder what the opposite sex thinks. I do have a question and hope you would reply with your opinion:

I love going braless. There’s been numerous research online about how braless is so good and can prevent cancer. I feel good braless and my husband loves it too and encourages me to go braless. Always braless & panty-less at home. Several times went out braless like shopping, salon etc. Mostly I don’t really bother to conceal it bcos I wear tudung. If look closely I think people can see that I am not wearing bra bcos of the pokies, the bouncing (I have 38D) and shape. My question :

1. Do guys notice what female with tudung are wearing? I mean, do u guys check them out or straight away skip them? I’ve noticed several women braless or panty less but wearing tudung. I think they probably assume men don’t look cos they are wearing headscarf. Is that the case?

2. I want to go braless to work. Do u think SG society ready to accept the fact that women are free to dress as they please?


Thanks for the compliment! Comments and compliments keep me going on updating my blog. It is even more encouraging to have female readers onboard!

Seems you are finding reasons to justify for not wearing a bra? 😁 Well, I’m pretty sure in the comfort of own residences, most ladies would wear no bra. But to be fair, no bra also means breasts will tend to sag more as one ages, particularly in your case which the boobs are big.

On your questions..

1. Personally, I would look out for pokies, panty lines if the lady is clad in semi/tight-fitting clothes. For women in tudong, cardigan, I usually won’t check them out as like you said, chances of seeing pokies/pantyline thru an extra layer of fabric is very low..

Yes, I agree with you that they don’t bother cuz they assume men won’t really look. Looks like me and probably many others of my gender are wrong. 😄

2. During my 2 wks of vacation in Europe, I came across more women with no bra on, than the combined no. I seen in SG across a few years. So much I wish, I think braless in SG is still not widely practiced. But again, YOLO. If you feel liberated with no bra on, just go ahead! The world will be a happier place if more ladies think like you! 😊

No bra

For comfort sake, I always go ‘commando’ at home.

However there have been a few times when I paid a short visit to a female friend’s or online buyer’s house, the lady didn’t bother putting on a bra. While their top are usually in dark colors, their pokies are still very obvious. It’s really distracting while chatting with them.

Even my wife whom usually don’t bother about zaogeng (wardrobe malfunction) always make a conscious efforts to put in her bra before guests come. Perhaps I shouldn’t fuss about putting on underwear too.. but what if I erect? Hmm..